...I'm not saying I think this is going to happen, but worst case scenario, if it came down to me or Kakyoin, I would want you to help Kakyoin.
He'll be Kakyoin about it but he's still a lot more messed up than he lets on. And I might not be able to hold him up without doing that thing where I sacrifice myself for someone else, so.
So . . . in order for you to not sacrifice yourself while helping Kakyoin, you want me to help Kakyoin, thus leaving you free to sacrifice yourself in a different way?
If he's fucked up, I know myself and I'll try to help him beyond my limits. To my own detriment.
If I know someone else is his safety net, I won't risk going past my limit. If I need help too that's a different question, what I'm trying to prevent is me going "I'm at my limit, but I have to keep going anyway because it's Kakyoin".
When it's something like this, I can't even start working on taking care of myself if he's not taken care of first. And it might turn out that I'm okay on my own, if I'm not destroying myself trying to hold up both of us.
I don't want to hurt him, with the topic and everything. But...I trust that he'd say to let him worry about being hurt or not, so long as it's helping me.
Right. I think some of it too is that...as flowers, they wouldn't be as beautiful if they weren't impermanent? You appreciate them more because you know that they're fragile. You don't let their fragility take away from their beauty, you find a balance in the two, and the balance is something beautiful in itself.
It's the national flower of Japan. They symbolize life and mortality, and how you're supposed to accept things like destiny gracefully. A cherry blossom's natural span is short, but in that time it's beautiful.
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He'll be Kakyoin about it but he's still a lot more messed up than he lets on. And I might not be able to hold him up without doing that thing where I sacrifice myself for someone else, so.
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Like ABSOLUTE rock-bottom worst.
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If he's fucked up, I know myself and I'll try to help him beyond my limits. To my own detriment.
If I know someone else is his safety net, I won't risk going past my limit. If I need help too that's a different question, what I'm trying to prevent is me going "I'm at my limit, but I have to keep going anyway because it's Kakyoin".
When it's something like this, I can't even start working on taking care of myself if he's not taken care of first. And it might turn out that I'm okay on my own, if I'm not destroying myself trying to hold up both of us.
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Then I'm his safety net, but I'm finding you one, too. Do you want Bruno or Jonathan?
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I don't want to hurt him, with the topic and everything. But...I trust that he'd say to let him worry about being hurt or not, so long as it's helping me.
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Then I'll tell him, and I'll make sure he's ready.
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When it's April, will you help me? Because I'll have to help everyone else.
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April is the fourth month.
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...April is cherry blossom month, in Japan.
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It's like a canopy of nothing but pink and white overhead, and the ground looks like it snowed, with all the petals.
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...There's this thing. Mono no aware. It's part of appreciating cherry blossoms, because they're beautiful but transient. It's a Zen thing.
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Because they're only around for a little while, and the rest of the year you just have the memory?
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Sorry.
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They're the flowers of warriors.
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