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it's not really about the living exactly
i mean it was before they were married
but dad loves music

i don't think he could be happy without it
and i don't think he could be happy without my mom

so they just
found a way to make it work out

he calls all the time
he makes sure to come home a couple times a year
he always sends mom flowers on christmas eve like they're still dating

i dunno
i just feel like i get it i guess?

i don't think him not being there means he doesn't care
actually i think it means he and mom have a better marriage than most people
because i don't think most people could do what they do
but they can