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i don't really have advice for you and it feels like i should. so i guess what i'll say is, my mom is a lot less delicate than she seems like, but also that what you're talking about is

i don't know, i'm trying to imagine my dad coming home from a tour and telling me that by the way he has a guy he's in love with and i know that's not exactly the same situation but all this time shit makes everything stupid. we get stuck having conversations we shouldn't have to have because this damn time shit is so stupid.

anyway i'm not going to tell you not to hurt her or anything because you don't need to be told.

i think i screwed up and my kid hates me in the future

so for what it's worth you're already doing better than i am i guess