So. I didn't need to know you personally to know that, but it's not like I just picked something to do at random and hoped for the best.

[He brings his hand back, cupping his mug again.]

What would you want someone to do to you? You don't have to tell me, just think about it. That's a good place to start. If you want it, that's probably because it's good, so somebody else would probably want it too.